I know you’ve heard it over and over again and by now you have concluded that “aye n serue”. A lady once told me that the people saying one should wait till marriage before having sex never waited in their time, some also argue that they need to test to be sure. But I need to let you know that the fact that others are doing it doesn’t make it right and testing is not a guarantee for a superb sex life in marriage. Maybe you should read these few points; it will help you to understand why sex is meant for marriage.
- Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.
2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure. I WILL BE GLAD TO READ YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS, WHY DO YOU THINK SEX IS WORTH WAITING FOR?……YOU CAN GET THE COMPLETE DVD OF THIS ARTICLE AT: http://intimatesolutionnetwork.com/new/?post_type=product