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How do I register?

To register as a member simply click on the ‘Start Here’ on the top menu or click on ‘Take the Personality Quize Now’ on the  site slider image on the hompage to register, After

WHY ARE THERE ONLY FEW PEOPLE IN THE WEBSITE?

As at the time of answering this question, there are more than one thousand members in the website, even though the website has not been launched. Its just that, these members are free members who probably doesn’t understand that this is not business as usual. Intimate Matchmaking is a very traditional and strict site and […]

WHY SHOULD I PAY WHEN THERE ARE FREE DATING SITES?

Intimate Matchmaking is not just a dating site, its a traditional, strict and result oriented matchmaking site that tries to correct the mistakes of other dating sites and achieve the idea of “strictly for marriage” website. In fact, Intimacy Network opened a free dating site in 2010, but the result wasn’t impressive, withing 6 months, […]

I HAVE SEEN THE PICTURES IN THE SUCCESS STORIES ONLINE BEFORE?

That could be possible because some of the pictures are not the real picture of the people, but the stories are true success stories of Intimate Matchmaking. We encourage people to allow the website to use their pictures and there’s a gift attached to that, but until then, success stories of people who doesn’t want […]

WHY ARE THERE SPECIAL CATEGORIES FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE HIV POSITIVE?

From my experience with people living with HIV, i discovered that, its more difficult for them to get married than we thought. A young lady who fell in love with a man who was also helplessly in love with her came to my office for counseling. The guy was begging for her hand in marriage, […]

I’M A CHRISTIAN, AND NOT TOO SURE IF MATCHMAKING IS BIBLICAL?

The history of matchmaking started as far back as 1600, and it was solely done by parish vicars who usually helped to match their members with those of similar class and faith. In fact, the first dating agency was established in London in 1825 by a church. Genesis 24: 1-9, talked about how Abraham deliberately […]

HOW COME NO ONE IS TALKING TO ME?

There could be various reasons why no one is talking to you, and there are few things you could do to improve on this: Update all your details. Your profile details determines whether someone will feel connected to you or not and no one wants to start guessing your details in a matchmaking site. To […]

HOW LONG IS THE DURATION OF THE SUBSCRIPTION

Subscription is for 6 months, but the first 500 registrants in the website (not subscribers) get 12 months.

AFTER PAYMENT WHAT NEXT ?

Wether you pay through direct bank deposit, online transfer or debit card. Kindly send an email to: payment@intimatematchmaking.com to confirm your payment. Use your username as the depositor’s name if you are paying through direct bank deposit.

Login in is very difficult, always saying my email address is not recognized and password incorrect

This is probably because you have not made payment, the website will not recognize you, neither will you be able to do anything on the site until your payment has been confirmed and you have been activated.

How do I register?

To register as a member simply click on the ‘Start Here’ on the top menu or click on ‘Take the Personality Quize Now’ on the  site slider image on the hompage to register, After

WHY ARE THERE ONLY FEW PEOPLE IN THE WEBSITE?

As at the time of answering this question, there are more than one thousand members in the website, even though the website has not been launched. Its just that, these members are free members who probably doesn’t understand that this is not business as usual. Intimate Matchmaking is a very traditional and strict site and the idea is to achieve the “only for marriage” website. There are thousands of dating sites online, but this site is not just about crowd but getting results. Meanwhile the website will be launched in 2 weeks and we are going to be rolling out publicity that will drive more people to the site, so, early registration will be an added advantage to get used to the site on time. At the end of the day, even though we need the crowd, its still about the results and when we stick to our rules and regulations, we earn peoples trust. Meanwhile, the website is still new and people are registering on a daily basis. Besides, the first 500 registered members get early 12 months subscription instead of the normal 6 months.

WHY SHOULD I PAY WHEN THERE ARE FREE DATING SITES?

Intimate Matchmaking is not just a dating site, its a traditional, strict and result oriented matchmaking site that tries to correct the mistakes of other dating sites and achieve the idea of “strictly for marriage” website. In fact, Intimacy Network opened a free dating site in 2010, but the result wasn’t impressive, withing 6 months, there are about 0ne million members, majority breaking peoples heart and doing all sorts of funny stuffs, a scenario which is uncommon in free dating sites. We believed that, when people pays for services, they take it more serious. The aim of Intimate Matchmaking is to achieve a matchmaking site with integrity, free of scams and unserious elements. A website that is safe for everyone irrespective of their cultures, religions and nationalities.

I HAVE SEEN THE PICTURES IN THE SUCCESS STORIES ONLINE BEFORE?

That could be possible because some of the pictures are not the real picture of the people, but the stories are true success stories of Intimate Matchmaking. We encourage people to allow the website to use their pictures and there’s a gift attached to that, but until then, success stories of people who doesn’t want their pictures posted for privacy reasons will be posted with online picture.

WHY ARE THERE SPECIAL CATEGORIES FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE HIV POSITIVE?

From my experience with people living with HIV, i discovered that, its more difficult for them to get married than we thought.

A young lady who fell in love with a man who was also helplessly in love with her came to my office for counseling. The guy was begging for her hand in marriage, he wants to meets her parents, but shes HIV positive and has not opened up to the guy, she’s also worried because they are both workers in a big church.

She felt if she opened up, it might become a scandal in the church and people might start discriminating against her and she simply told the guy she cant marry her. She couldn’t get over the pain of loosing her dream man and was slipping into depression when she came to my office for counseling. It was a tough situation right?

That was the 4th scenario exactly as at then, i mean of people that actually came to my office for this same situation. This brought my attention to how difficult it might be to get married when you are positive.

Don’t get me wrong, we all know that being positive is not the end of the world, and that people living with a HIV can live their normal life, but when it get the junction of “will you marry me” its always a difficult situation.

I know there has been one of two cases of people who knew their partners were positive and still went ahead to marry them, but how realistic is this? This realization made me to create a “special category” in my matchmaking site, strictly for those who are HIV positive, what this means is that, if you register for that category, the only people you will meet are people who are also positive, no other person in the website can see people in this category.

The idea is to save people, the embarrassment, difficulties, drama and heart ache that always accompany loosing one’s fiance/fiancee at the verge of getting married, just because they are positive.

-Dr. Tolu (CEO Intimate Matchmaking)

 

I’M A CHRISTIAN, AND NOT TOO SURE IF MATCHMAKING IS BIBLICAL?

The history of matchmaking started as far back as 1600, and it was solely done by parish vicars who usually helped to match their members with those of similar class and faith. In fact, the first dating agency was established in London in 1825 by a church. Genesis 24: 1-9, talked about how Abraham deliberately planned the matching of his son Isaac to those of his lineage. In the days of the Bible, parents are always involved in the choice of partner for their children. There’s nothing unbiblical about matchmaking.

HOW COME NO ONE IS TALKING TO ME?

There could be various reasons why no one is talking to you, and there are few things you could do to improve on this:

  1. Update all your details. Your profile details determines whether someone will feel connected to you or not and no one wants to start guessing your details in a matchmaking site. To gain peoples trust and remove the barrier, it will do you a lot of good to update your full details.
  2. Post presentable and attractive profile picture (there’s an article on that on the website)
  3. Make effort to reach out to others well
  4. Participate in activities on the website e.g. be a regular contributor on the blog
  5. Be a little patient, as more people are still registering on the website on a daily basis

HOW LONG IS THE DURATION OF THE SUBSCRIPTION

Subscription is for 6 months, but the first 500 registrants in the website (not subscribers) get 12 months.

AFTER PAYMENT WHAT NEXT ?

Wether you pay through direct bank deposit, online transfer or debit card. Kindly send an email to: payment@intimatematchmaking.com to confirm your payment. Use your username as the depositor’s name if you are paying through direct bank deposit.

Login in is very difficult, always saying my email address is not recognized and password incorrect

This is probably because you have not made payment, the website will not recognize you, neither will you be able to do anything on the site until your payment has been confirmed and you have been activated.