Why Is Marriage Tough?

Marriage is tough for many reasons, including:

1. Different Backgrounds & Expectations – Partners come from different families, cultures, and personal experiences, which shape their expectations of marriage.
2. Communication Issues – Misunderstandings, unspoken needs, and poor conflict resolution can create distance.
3. Emotional & Physical Intimacy Changes – Over time, attraction, sex drive, and emotional connection can shift, requiring intentional effort.
4. External Stressors – Financial struggles, work pressure, parenting, and in-laws can add tension.
5. Personal Growth & Change – People evolve, and if couples don’t grow together, they may drift apart.
6. Unrealistic Expectations – Many enter marriage expecting lifelong romance without realizing it requires continuous effort.
7. Power Struggles – Differences in decision-making, independence, and leadership roles can create friction.